Lunch job interviews are a unique dance — part professional, part social. You’re being evaluated not just on your skills, but also on how well you connect, listen, and keep a conversation flowing naturally. The good news? With a few solid conversation starters and a bit of strategy, you can ace the “small talk” portion and leave a memorable impression.
Here’s how to master the art of casual yet smart conversation at your next lunch interview:
Start with the environment
Use the setting around you to kick things off casually.
- “This is a great spot — have you been here before?”
- “I heard this place is known for [their burgers/salads/whatever]. Any favorites?”
Why it works: It’s low-pressure, easy to answer, and gets the dialogue rolling without diving straight into heavy topics.
Show enthusiasm about the opportunity
Once drinks are ordered and you’re settling in, steer the conversation toward the company and role.
- “I’m really excited about the possibility of joining [Company]. What do you personally enjoy most about working here?”
- “How has your role evolved since you started at [Company]?”
Pro tip: Asking them questions early makes you seem engaged and curious (and gives you valuable insight!).
Find common ground
If something casual comes up (sports, weekend plans, pop culture), don’t be afraid to connect.
- “I noticed [their sports team memorabilia, laptop sticker, etc.]. Are you a big [team name] fan?”
- “I just started [show/podcast/book] — any recommendations?”
Important: Keep it light, positive, and steer clear of politics, religion, or anything controversial.
Sprinkle in career-related curiosity
Lunch interviews are still interviews! Blend personal small talk with career-focused questions.
- “What initially drew you to a career in [industry]?”
- “Are there any skills you think are especially valuable at [Company] right now?”
This shows you’re not just friendly — you’re serious about the opportunity.
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Respond thoughtfully, don’t dominate
Remember: good conversation is a two-way street. Listen carefully to their answers, and build naturally from them.
Example:
- Interviewer: “I love how collaborative our team is.”
- You: “That’s great to hear — I really value collaboration too. In my last role, we did a lot of cross-departmental projects. What kinds of teams work together the most here?”
Exit with a graceful close
As the meal winds down, leave them with a positive impression.
- “Thank you again for taking the time to meet over lunch. This has made me even more excited about the opportunity.”
- “I really appreciated hearing about your experience. It sounds like such a supportive team.”
End on a note of gratitude and enthusiasm — it’ll linger in their mind longer than you think.
Final tips:
- Smile and relax — it’s easier to connect when you’re at ease.
- Pace yourself eating — you want to be able to speak without worrying about your mouth being full.
- Stay positive — keep the energy light and forward-looking, not critical or complaining.
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